something im beginning to notice about people who cheat in relationships

[Sub-Zero]

dudes are ice cold these days.. its the cool thing to do..

and dudes are selfish that about sums it up.. its pretty funny cause all my black/spanish friends if they dont cheat their not normal.. their babysmoms even know they cheat its just who they go home too at the end of the night and take care of..

my how this world has changed..

in the young crowd these days, especially college age, thats very common. its just as common for a girl to go out with her girly friends and get all liquored up and wake up next to someone who isnt her boyfriend.

i was refering to the reasonings behind it.

a girl will usually make up an excuse, like "he drove me away, he wasnt loving me right,"

where as a guy will say "im a cheater, i wanted some strange pussy, it was too easy"

phaded, dont miss the point of this thread, it was to say that girls are dishonest and make excuses.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I think when men get really honest with themselves, they often do it for emotional reasons, too. That is why you see men screwing women who aren't even as attractive as their wives. They want to know that they can still pull tail. It makes them feel desirable.

So, what I'm saying is that they often do it for attention, but they won't come out and say that because it doesn't feed their egos to admit that.

this is a very good point.

but they dont blame their wife for making them feel unpretty that day so they had to go cheat

 

[Sub-Zero]

fucking a right bro...women do it for the same reason they just wait till they have something that just sounds nicer for a reason.thats all the fuck it is.fuck women fuck them all to hell fucking fuck fuck fuck them.

exactly!

 

[heatherrae]

this is a very good point.

but they dont blame their wife for making them feel unpretty that day so they had to go cheat

Well, no, I don't think that they do. I think that they are not really as introspective to put a reason to it the way that women do. They convince themselves they just want the "strange."

Whatever reason people put to it, it is wrong. I think some women pin the blame on their men unfairly. So do some men.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Well, no, I don't think that they do. I think that they are not really as introspective to put a reason to it the way that women do. They convince themselves they just want the "strange."

Whatever reason people put to it, it is wrong. I think all women pin the blame on their men unfairly. So do some men.

i fixed it for you...

heather, say it, 90% of women have an alter ego of sorts, whose symptoms either include, selfishness, psychoticism, crazed yelling and screaming, irrational anger and irrational decision making,, or being a downright hooker!

 

[heatherrae]

i fixed it for you...

heather, say it, 90% of women have an alter ego of sorts, whose symptoms either include, selfishness, psychoticism, crazed yelling and screaming, irrational anger and irrational decision making,, or being a downright hooker!

I wouldn't pin that just on women. I think that 99% of men and women are neurotic in one way or another.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

My best gf is Hispanic and she had a girl call her husband on their WEDDING DAY and leave a vm saying "how could you get married? How could you do this to me?"

The WEIRD thing was that she got furious WITH THE OTHER WOMAN for disrespecting their wedding day. She hardly said a word to her husband and went through with the marriage.

This, by far, was not the first time he cheated. They were together for almost ten years before getting married. She explains to me that it is just a cultural difference. Evidently, hispanic women don't think that their hubbies having sex with someone else is a divorcable offense, so long as the men keep it on the down low...lol.

Reeks of insecurity right there. Across the board of cultures/races. Although some behave more dignified than others. I've actually been told by a girl she'd rather I went behind her back and cheat on her than have another chic grope me in front of her.

In any case though, cheating can happen even in otherwise faithful relationships when one/both partie's emotional/physical needs aren't being met. Human beings are emotional creatures and anything can happen, even to the most strong-willed of individuals.

"There is a road from the eye to the heart that does not go through the intellect." - G.K. Chesterton

The main thing I'm concerned with if someone ever cheated on me behind my back is vd's. Sure, get your rocks off with someone else, but bring their nasty shit into our lives......you. will. go. down.

Where is that word everyone seems to hate.......oh here, responsibility.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I didn't read any of the tripe posted... 'cause I am lit. LOL

But feel this. I have NEVER cheated on anyone yet I can forgive those that have cheated on me. Why do you think that is?

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I didn't read any of the tripe posted... 'cause I am lit. LOL

But feel this. I have NEVER cheated on anyone yet I can forgive those that have cheated on me. Why do you think that is?

Is this a rhetorical question?

 

[Cutiebaby]

Claiming to be drunk is a lovely excuse.If you cannot act normal when drinking than maybe you should not drink!!!! I can understand a woman not giving it up, and I can somewhat see what a man is saying when he claims that he wants something else, some thing new...But drinking, come on now!