something im beginning to notice about people who cheat in relationships

[Sub-Zero]

most men iv read on here and met in real life who cheat always say its because they were drunk, wanted some strange pussy, woman wouldnt give it up, etc. but they are always honest that it comes down to the sex. they want sex, either with someone who isnt their siginifcant other, or maybe as in TC2s case its because the significant other wasnt putting out.

when a woman cheats, its because she felt unloved, the man chased her away, he wasnt adhering to her needs, she needed attention the man wasnt giving her, and all sorts of barage of excuses that involve emotion and the man being manipulative and evil etc.

one seems alot more honest and to the point

 

[Phaded]

dudes are ice cold these days.. its the cool thing to do..

and dudes are selfish that about sums it up.. its pretty funny cause all my black/spanish friends if they dont cheat their not normal.. their babysmoms even know they cheat its just who they go home too at the end of the night and take care of..

my how this world has changed..

 

[Bikini Mod]

It is an individual thing. In many cultures women are socialized to accept that their man is going to cheat because *all men are dogs and their drive is so strong that he just cant help himself*. So the women actually buy their men condoms and just give them to him so they dont bring home some nasty disease. But even in those cultures there are men who are MEN and are above those that feel that they can do whatever the fuck they want because it is socially acceptable.

The only increase in cheating by women is due largely in part to advances in birth control. Funny thing, men have been cheating on women from the dawn of time and most often all she could do was accept it or leave (and go where?). But now that it is going both ways, men are *suddenly* all sensitive about it?

PUH-LEASE.

Cheating/lying/stealing, etc are NOT gender specific character flaws.

No matter how much society tells me that it is either acceptable or not to step out on my man, I just dont roll that way. I also dont judge though, because I know that life doesnt always turn out the way we had planned when we were all young and starry-eyed.

I have been cheated on several times and while it hurt a lot, I got over it. I have also forgiven cheating. Wonder how I can be so generous even though I have NEVER cheated? It's because we all make conscious decisions. My decisions affect my life and I am not too concerned with the decisions of others unless, of course, you are MY husband. Other than that... everyone is free to do what they wish.

Interestingly enough though, in my circle of females we have all been cheated on, yet we have never cheated and we are some pretty old broads. LOL

 

[jd_uk]

The only increase in cheating by women is due largely in part to advances in birth control. Funny thing, men have been cheating on women from the dawn of time and most often all she could do was accept it or leave (and go where?). But now that it is going both ways, men are *suddenly* all sensitive about it?

PUH-LEASE.

Wtf? How are men who get cheated on today in any way responsible for the way other men have been in the past?? As if they shouldn't be 'all sensitive about it'. You've got some really strange ideas.

 

[heatherrae]

most men iv read on here and met in real life who cheat always say its because they were drunk, wanted some strange pussy, woman wouldnt give it up, etc. but they are always honest that it comes down to the sex. they want sex, either with someone who isnt their siginifcant other, or maybe as in TC2s case its because the significant other wasnt putting out.

when a woman cheats, its because she felt unloved, the man chased her away, he wasnt adhering to her needs, she needed attention the man wasnt giving her, and all sorts of barage of excuses that involve emotion and the man being manipulative and evil etc.

one seems alot more honest and to the point

I think when men get really honest with themselves, they often do it for emotional reasons, too. That is why you see men screwing women who aren't even as attractive as their wives. They want to know that they can still pull tail. It makes them feel desirable.

So, what I'm saying is that they often do it for attention, but they won't come out and say that because it doesn't feed their egos to admit that.

 

[jd_uk]

I think when men get really honest with themselves, they often do it for emotional reasons, too. That is why you see men screwing women who aren't even as attractive as their wives. They want to know that they can still pull tail. It makes them feel desirable.

So, what I'm saying is that they often do it for attention, but they won't come out and say that because it doesn't feed their egos to admit that.

Attraction is subjective though so when the women say "she's not even as attractive as his wife/gf" then that might not be true...to him she might be.

I see what you're saying though about it making them feel desirable. Also a lot of men probably also cheat because they don't feel a strong connection with their partner anymore, which again is not about sex, well not directly at least.

 

[needtogetaas]

most men iv read on here and met in real life who cheat always say its because they were drunk, wanted some strange pussy, woman wouldnt give it up, etc. but they are always honest that it comes down to the sex. they want sex, either with someone who isnt their siginifcant other, or maybe as in TC2s case its because the significant other wasnt putting out.

when a woman cheats, its because she felt unloved, the man chased her away, he wasnt adhering to her needs, she needed attention the man wasnt giving her, and all sorts of barage of excuses that involve emotion and the man being manipulative and evil etc.

one seems alot more honest and to the point

fucking a right bro...women do it for the same reason they just wait till they have something that just sounds nicer for a reason.thats all the fuck it is.fuck women fuck them all to hell fucking fuck fuck fuck them.

 

[timtim]

im with abolish the weak, fuck all women!

 

[heatherrae]

Attraction is subjective though so when the women say "she's not even as attractive as his wife/gf" then that might not be true...to him she might be.

I see what you're saying though about it making them feel desirable. Also a lot of men probably also cheat because they don't feel a strong connection with their partner anymore, which again is not about sex, well not directly at least.

Yes, I would agree with that, too. I think especially when people are working so hard to raise families these days. They become partners in child rearing and running the household and forget to be true romantic partners for so long that relationships just fizzle out.

 

[heatherrae]

im with abolish the weak, fuck all women!