You got me...I don't know. I figure I'm in love if I would give them my heart if they needed it. Hopefully they don't need it. Love can make me happy but it makes me sad when things go awry. Except for me Johnson...reliable thing never fails me and I love it.
I think love is chemistry in the beginning. You know, when you get that feeling inside whenever you are around that person. It becomes true love when you discover all of those annoying things about that person, that you can't stand but you still love them anyway.
I don't think love is an illusion, I think people just expect everything to be like a damn soap opera or a movie. People need to watch a little less TV and concentrate on reality.