Is this cheating????

[Tigerparks]

I'm confused and miffed.

If your girl got soooo drunk at a friends party and she crashed in the same bed as her best friend and her boyfriend.

Then later during the night, she became conscious and started to kiss the boyfriend as he lay fast asleep next to his girl.

Then the best friend awoke to this kissing and murmuring sound switched on the light and saw her best friend kissing her fella with him still asleep.

And only when the best friend started to scream the house down, shouting and swearing, did all three of the group become properly awake.

Then your girl pleads her innocence thinking she was kissing her REAL boyfriend (ie YOU).

1) Would you believe her?
2) Is this cheating?

Three important facts for the defence:
1 - She was so drunk she couldn't stand up. Crying uncontrollably once it became apparent.
2 - The guy she was kissing is one weird ugly looking mofo.
3 - Her best friend was laying in the same bed. (risky?)

For the prosecution:
1 - She was kissing him with her arm around him, murmuring.
2 - She was stripped down to her underwear.
3 - When her boyfriend found out (i.e ME) she initially blamed the guy who was asleep claiming he came onto her! Later admitted this was a lie.

Guilty of cheating or not? Jury will you retire for your verdicts please.

 

[Tigerparks]

C'mon people, we all have a right to vote. This is a democracy the last time I checked.

 

[Norman Bates]

Who knows?
Only thing for sure , i hate liars, especially when people lie to blame their own short commings on someone else.

 

[woollis2]

First of all, I must say we must all admit our mistakes, wrong doings, etc. You are responsible for your own actions. You can't blame other people for your own mistakes. I hate people that blame others for their fuck ups (ie: my soon to be exhusband ALWAYS blamed other people for his fuck ups and he always lied to cover up and let me tell you he is a sucky liar).

I hate liars.

My personal opinion.....I think that was walking on a very fine line of cheating. BUT....if the other guy was still asleep, well then he is innocent so to speak. Just remember it takes TWO to tango. Without that support of the other person (ie the boyfriend of the best friend) he didn't cheat but she tried to...sound like SHE has some issues that you guys need to discuss.

 

[KA-BAR]

What is said in the above pretty much covers what I was going to say. Guilty as charged!

 

[gmanlax7]

She kissed, therefore she cheated. Tell her not to get so fucking loaded.

 

[wiseguy1]

Thats a tough call I'll have to go with undecided. She was drunk and she probably had no clue what was going on but she shouldn't have been in a bed with some guy. It was just a kiss by the way it sounds not much of one. I think you should tell your girlfriend to control her drinking. Your choice to break up with your girl shouldn't be made on something that she probably had no idea what she was doing but more on if you can trust her.

 

[supertech69]

Alcohol os no excuse, if you can't controll yourself ten you shouldn't be drinking. I would kick my girls ass to the curb for good, drunk or otherwise. It takes two to tango! I wdon't give second chances in those instances, if you'll do it once, you'll do it again.

 

[Lara Croft]

This is definitely a toughie. Its true that she might have thought she was kissing you, but still...she lied to you about the sleeping guy coming onto her. Dude, ditch her. If she honestly thought it was you, why would she lie about it? If you stay with her, you're going to have doubts in your head and you wont be able to trust her. You're probably better off w/o her. Sorry, man.

 

[Tigerparks]

Thanks for the posts people. So far it's a majority verdict that she is guilty.
I'm still confused. We had a heart to heart today. And she told me she was 'rowing for shore' when she blamed the other guy, knew it was wrong and has vowed to give up drinking to excess.

She claims she needs to get her life in order and can see all of her lifes turmoils have come from the demon drink.

She wants me to give her another chance. Practically begged me. Bottom lip trembleing and everything.

So anyway, one thing led to another, and we start to get it on. The problem is, I've also gone a week without any pussy and am in dire need. (Shame on me!) In the week we've been apart she hasn't eaten and has lost 7 lbs. She strips off and is wearing a black thong. With matching bra.

Okay, I was weak, very weak. We went at it like rabbits. Once it was over I felt really.... guilty.

I felt that she used her body to get me back. She's left now and I got this feeling she's saying to herself, "Yep, works everytime". I just feel a bit....Cheap! I know I sound like a wuss but part of me wishes I was stronger and said "No FUCK OFF!"

It's my dick ruling my head again. Hey look on the bright side. She owes me one now right? IF she catches me with a girl, I'll blame the drink and say "I thought it was you".