how to break it off with the girlfriend...

[Scotsman]

Sorry to hear about your situation! There's never an easy way to do it! But you say that you're 21 & you want to be single etc., then why would you move onto another girl?! The reason you lost interest in your girl is b/c of the new girl - first watch out 'cause what goes around eventually comes around. Don't have much expectations w/ this girl either - things happen. Enjoy being young & single & don't lead this new girl on. Let her know what you're looking for. Also, fyi: whenever you meet someone new, they're ALWAYS "perfect". Remember, they're NOT perfect & quite frankly neither are you - the object is to see if you're perfect together.

Excellent advice. Nice good will hunting reference on the end there too. Now I just need you to break up with your guy and move to denver you sound like you understand life pretty well.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[MissJanet79]

Excellent advice. Nice good will hunting reference on the end there too. Now I just need you to break up with your guy and move to denver you sound like you understand life pretty well.

Cheers,
Scotsman

*blushing* awww shucks! LOL Thank you!

 

[MercyMe]

Chicks are all about closure..make it good for the next one..don't leave her jaded.

 

[Dieharder]

Details. Details maing...

well basically i told her that i needed a break because i dont feel like there is that "connection" between us anymore, and she goes "but i thought you loved me" and i was like i do, but its not the same kind. Then she started crying and told me she cant talk to me and left...tried calling her, no answer, things just went bad, but i guess they cant really go well either

 

[chewyxrage]

well basically i told her that i needed a break because i dont feel like there is that "connection" between us anymore, and she goes "but i thought you loved me" and i was like i do, but its not the same kind. Then she started crying and told me she cant talk to me and left...tried calling her, no answer, things just went bad, but i guess they cant really go well either

that really isn't that bad. crying and questions should have been expected.

she'll talk in a day or two

 

[RADAR]

Well at least it went better than what i went thru.
Still the whole thing sucks, even if later you discover that you were right for each other & want to rekindle the flame-things are never the same.

RADAR