How important...

[theoak01]

i may give her a chance but im with some others i have to find her attractive somewhat

 

[May1010]

CAN YOU GIVE A GOOD BLOW JOB? IF SO, YOUR STOCK GOES WAAAAYYY UP

I certainly can ... and you can keep your hands up above your head just like in the picture!

 

[Austin316]

Slice, to me it just sounds like you are lacking in self confidence, so am I. I hope you are being sarcastic, but if not, you are being way too hard on yourself.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Yes, looks play a large roll in the initial stages. Men are visual creatures. Yes, other things can occassionally supercede the physical attraction factor, but I would surmise that this is the exception rather than the norm.

Looks play a large roll in first becoming interested in a woman romantically, the rest of the stuff - humor, intelligence, affection, etc. - play into whether that person will work out romantically in the long run.

Luckily, guys have wide and varying ideas of beauty.

 

[Slice of Peach2]

Big Buck, I sent you a PM. I'm sorry. *hugs*

Yes, I was being sarcastic. I am not a pig.

smallmovesal, thank you so much. I used to be married, I may want to get married again someday, just to a better man. *big hug*

I just wish men and women would stop judging each other by looks and start looking into people's hearts. I would rather have a man who treated me decently then one who was all that in the looks department.

I just wish more people felt this way too.

 

[Big Buck]

Big Buck, I sent you a PM. I'm sorry. *hugs*

 

[Slice of Peach2]

 

[bignate73]

I just wish men and women would stop judging each other by looks and start looking into people's hearts

that could be a good thing. cardiovascular fitness and cholesterol levels. those are good criteria for choosing a mate because you can tell how healthy they are on the inside and whether or not they will be around for the long haul. we could have bloodpressure bars where people go around with sphgmomometers (sp) and stethoscopes. the true pimps would be the guys and gals that can give good bp readings, and carry around lowfat foods and "healthy fats" for all to eat. everyone can sit on a treadmill doing max vo2 tests. wow, youre on to something peach. im gonna do it.

hehe, alright i went overboard...

still got love for you ms peach. you just set me up so well for that one. "bump set, spike". just like volleyball.

 

[Workin_at_it]

Maybe it's me. But there have been several times when a woman who I thought was plain, or 'funny-looking' I would find attractive months later. I know it's the personality, especially sense of humor and confidence. And it would usually be a gradual thing. I must admit, the pretty ones are (usually) still pretty after several months.


Also, there have been several women who were definitely plain, who I found very sexually attractive. God only knows why. Maybe the pheromone thing, I'll be damned if I can figure it out.

I have much more problems finding people who are badly out of shape attractive in any way. But looks (face, body shape) are one thing when you first meet someone, and a whole different thing once you know them.

 

[espanola]

Man......some of ya guys are getting to 'emotional'......Slice you sound real down and it's rubbing off.