Disturbing trend amongst alot of young guys i know that got married.....

[awittyusername]

White american women also definitely have a tunnel vision when it comes to marraige.

All they see is the wedding, and all the "good" things that they have seen in every romantic movie they have ever seen since they were 6.

I dont think any of them really think of actually being married long term.

Exactly!

I always say....

Everyone takes months, and an incredible amount of effort to plan their Wedding Day...But, no one ever takes that amount of effort, or thought on how they are going to live the next 60yrs with this person...raise kids...etc.

 

[Frisky]

Like Ive ALWAYS said..

drama is to women what porn is to men[/QUOTE

ah..

the bitch in me says

so fucking typcial

men expect alot from women,,,,,,,, therefore you have these fucking bimbos giving what you want

sad that you feel that way

 

[theoak01]

holy sikes

ibeen there done that, and shunned off plenty of relationships because i wasn't ready or because the vibe i got from them jus told me so. I don't play games ........ games are for kids in preschool.... i respect people who are upfront and honest, no matter what. most times its not what you want to hear but its reality..

this is my train of thought,i was in a long term relationship,but a bunch of stuff happened it didnt work out,we are still friends though,but since i split with her i just dont get teh vibe from any girl ive met that they are anywhere near the page im on,most girls my age just want to party and that crap,hence i look to the older population lol

 

[milo hobgoblin]

actually Erzulie..

man expect VERY little from women. Just stay the sexual creatures you pretend to be when you'er trying to catch us.. take pride in yourselves even AFTER the ring is put on..

most of us could care less if you cook or clean all the time.. if I wanted that Id marry a fucking maid.

if I wanted someone who wanted to play mommy 24/7 Id marry a fuckng babysitter.

I want a woman who wants to be a WIFE FIRST.

Thats NOT asking to much.

 

[Smurfy]

Also, if young women are being so "naive" and "foolish" to get married because it'/s what they "want" or "are expected to do", then what is there to say about the men who are marrying them? what about them? HUH/??

huh?

Huh?



HUH??!!!



not it!

 

[EnderJE]

Also, if young women are being so "naive" and "foolish" to get married because it'/s what they "want" or "are expected to do", then what is there to say about the men who are marrying them? what about them? HUH/??

huh?

Huh?



HUH??!!!



not it!

It's saying that they also believe in fairytales. Maybe, men need that from time to time.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

http://www.elfdata.com/darkside/womensuck/femalesruinlives.html

 

[Frisky]

actually Erzulie..

man expect VERY little from women. Just stay the sexual creatures you pretend to be when you'er trying to catch us.. take pride in yourselves even AFTER the ring is put on..

most of us could care less if you cook or clean all the time.. if I wanted that Id marry a fucking maid.

if I wanted someone who wanted to play mommy 24/7 Id marry a fuckng babysitter.

I want a woman who wants to be a WIFE FIRST.

Thats NOT asking to much.

oh i know.

but i don't sell myself as the perfect 'house keeper' i am who i am, and being a sexual person isn't what i want to use to attract someone to me. I am a very caring person, very into pleasing, etc... but that doesn't mean i dont' have my own opinion, own voice... or that im self sufficent, motivated and independat.

i love giving, i love catering to the one i love, making them feel like they are the only one..... isn't that what its about?

my kids will ALWAYS come first, and if HE can't accept it ....... than goodbye. i'd expect the same from him. My kids are my world. and then..... there comes my happiness, me being content, satisfied, dare i just accept what is there? hell no!

i want all that any woman dreams of, love, passion, security,

settle for less ......... why?

i can take shit like the next.... believe me not afucking persone here could tell me something that would shake me.... not that i enjoy it but my life isn't all sugar and peaches.

i believe you have to give to take

 

[Whiskey]

Eh... You'll have that.

Whiskey

 

[EnderJE]

oh i know.

but i don't sell myself as the perfect 'house keeper' i am who i am, and being a sexual person isn't what i want to use to attract someone to me. I am a very caring person, very into pleasing, etc... but that doesn't mean i dont' have my own opinion, own voice... or that im self sufficent, motivated and independat.

i love giving, i love catering to the one i love, making them feel like they are the only one..... isn't that what its about?

my kids will ALWAYS come first, and if HE can't accept it ....... than goodbye. i'd expect the same from him. My kids are my world. and then..... there comes my happiness, me being content, satisfied, dare i just accept what is there? hell no!

i want all that any woman dreams of, love, passion, security,

settle for less ......... why?

i can take shit like the next.... believe me not afucking persone here could tell me something that would shake me.... not that i enjoy it but my life isn't all sugar and peaches.

i believe you have to give to take

awwwwww