Disturbing trend amongst alot of young guys i know that got married.....

[Frisky]

we all can debate 'the reasons' for days, months years.. but the truth is, to generalize why is assine. most relationships end for 'some' reason. big or small.. and i guarantee you if your bud says.. she left me for no reason, you aren't getting the full report. We all want to look like the good guy and it takes a hell of a person to admit their faults.

I've admitted mine over and over again. What triggers me..etc...

I cant tolerate jealousy, therefore i know a realtionship with it will never work.

i believe that what njjuice speaks of goes for both sexes, there are men that are too good and there are women that are too good... it works both ways. If you can't be equal you just cant be. I'd never settle for anything less than an equal relationship, understanding.

 

[awittyusername]

imo that generalization is just as bad as tc2 ,im 21 and realize these things,i have a career think like an adult and am self sufficient. im far from a kid

No you are not a kid. But, 99.99999% people in their early 20s are not ready for a serious relationship.

Are you more mature than you were when you were 11?? Well, when you are 31...you will look back and realize you have learned and matured almost as much as you did form 11 to 21.

Bro, when I was 25. I had my degree, owned a successfull business, house, cars, had a serious gf. Now, I look back at that person and say I was just a kid.

 

[theoak01]

No you are not a kid. But, 99.99999% people in their early 20s are not ready for a serious relationship.

Are you more mature than you were when you were 11?? Well, when you are 31...you will look back and realize you have learned and matured almost as much as you did form 11 to 21.

Bro, when I was 25. I had my degree, owned a successfull business, house, cars, had a serious gf. Now, I look back at that person and say I was just a kid.

i get what your saying,i was just trying to prove that generalizations always have exceptions

 

[covergrl80]

In the early years of marriage, women are the relationship caretakers. They carefully monitor their relationships to make sure there is enough closeness and connection. If not, women will do what they can to try to fix things. If their husbands are not responsive, women become extremely unhappy and start complaining about everything under the sun... things that need to get done around the house, responsibilities pertaining to the children, how free time is spent and so on. Unfortunately, when women complain, men generally retreat and the marriage deteriorates even more.

After years of trying unsuccessfully to improve things, a woman eventually surrenders and convinces herself that change isn't possible. She ends up believing there's absolutely nothing she can do because everything she's tried hasn't worked. That's when she begins to carefully map out the logistics of what she considers to be the inevitable, getting a divorce.

However we all know, there as to be more to the story nor do we know what happens behind closed doors.

 

[TC2]

White american women also definitely have a tunnel vision when it comes to marraige.

All they see is the wedding, and all the "good" things that they have seen in every romantic movie they have ever seen since they were 6.

I dont think any of them really think of actually being married long term.

 

[biteme]

Here is one statistic that is not disputable. I read it at father's rights. Well, actually any statistic can be disputed, but I bet it's accurate. 80% of all divorces are filed by the woman. Why, because a woman's mind is always changing and she's never sure exactly what she wants. It may change from one week to the next. Okay, I'm generalizing here.

 

[awittyusername]

i get what your saying,i was just trying to prove that generalizations always have exceptions

Oh yes!

But, some of the generalizations are fun...especially when they are about women.lol

 

[Frisky]

No you are not a kid. But, 99.99999% people in their early 20s are not ready for a serious relationship.

Are you more mature than you were when you were 11?? Well, when you are 31...you will look back and realize you have learned and matured almost as much as you did form 11 to 21.

Bro, when I was 25. I had my degree, owned a successfull business, house, cars, had a serious gf. Now, I look back at that person and say I was just a kid.

holy sikes

i agree

age is a big factor of how you address a relationship. Are you ready for something serious? do you just want to fuck around playing.(not that its wrong)

when you are serious about someone you bend and you bend to make it work... you discuss things, you allow for things. this shit doesn't happen overnight. It takes time to trust someone with your heart.

been there done that, and shunned off plenty of relationships because i wasn't ready or because the vibe i got from them jus told me so. I don't play games ........ games are for kids in preschool.... i respect people who are upfront and honest, no matter what. most times its not what you want to hear but its reality..

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Like Ive ALWAYS said..

drama is to women what porn is to men

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I have like 3 buddies from high school that all had kids young and got married and became these super dad/husbands. Never go out, always with their wife and kid. Work, spend time with them..thats it. well 2 already had their wives leave them , and the 3rd just had his wife say "i want a divorce" . they are all around my age. 25. Now these guys did not cheat, did nothing wrong for the most part.

Testify brother, testify. Tell it like it is!!! Praise be upon the truth and those who spread. All the brosephs in America need to read this and realize the serpents that they are. Brolies should know that another broly would not steer them wrong. It is lucifer's right hand known as women that will be the end of a good bro.