Disturbing trend amongst alot of young guys i know that got married.....

[Frisky]

yep I'll lump All american white women into one group. because if 999 out of 1000 american white women act this way, then yes they are the vast majority.

simple minded people are the pussies that sit back and let them get away with it.

The vast majority of them see marriage as a life long vacation

what does a man get out of the marriage?

all i could possibly offer is for you to not limit your self to one are



oh else..... you just arent' a fuckng catch and the only women that want you are money hungry bitchs... if you were hadsome, had a great body then sure as fuck youd have no prob

ahhh so there it goes

either A.. get the fuck out of the USA,

or B. wow.. get the fuck out of the USA. Cause it obvious that you can't strike enought attention even for the whores at heart.....

night night

 

[alien amp pharm]

fight

 

[velvett]

yep I'll lump All american white women into one group. because if 999 out of 1000 american white women act this way, then yes they are the vast majority.

simple minded people are the pussies that sit back and let them get away with it.

The vast majority of them see marriage as a life long vacation

what does a man get out of the marriage?

Wow, it's kinda sad that your experience have been so poor. While there is truth to what you've said throughout this thread it's not an absolute, there are not absolutes when it comes to human bahavior - the human condition maybe but not behavior - too many variables even when similiar.

Obviously no one here can change your mind or open it a bit so you have to do what you have to do to find happiness.

As far as what a man should get out of marriage, hopefully the same as a woman - a best friend, a lover, a confidant and a partner in crime when you wanna have some fun.

I think a lot of the hostility that brew between men and woman is that the gender roles have changed or rather blurred. The stepford stay at home wife of the 50's doesn't really exist anymore and it's been my personal observation that most men will eventually resent the wife for not working both as just a wife or as a wife and mother. Our society's mass view of the nuclear family is not same, we expect both the man and the woman to work so when one partner stay's home we're more apt to label them as lazy and the worker bee to be taken advantage of monetarily.

 

[velvett]

Explosive diahrea?

No, no - I couldn't breathe or find my inhaler.

 

[velvett]

How come you are still single?

Because our paths have not crossed perhaps???

Well, I'm no longer and I'm too old for you.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

It might be different with men - but for women that 2-10 seconds is if your mere presence can make our patties wet - it will take a bit longer than that to know if there is anything beyond the sexual chemistry.

I've had great sexual chemistry with men I'd consider posioning over dinner.

For me personally - if I can stand you after 5 minutes and not want the first date to end as quickly as possible (or leave through the kitchen) there could be something there and a second date will follow.

We're both right. If there's no sexual chemistry, there's no future. If there is, there MIGHT be a future.

aap is (according to his own posts) meeting women with whom he is not connecting sexually or otherwise. Whether he treats them "badly" or not will make zero difference.

I found a 24 hour taco place in Fort Lauderdale, on 17th street.

 

[alien amp pharm]

aap is (according to his own posts) meeting women with whom he is not connecting sexually or otherwise. Whether he treats them "badly" or not will make zero difference.

Hey Inspector Gadget, the last two girls I met have been virgins! So I'd say it is safe to say we aren't connecting sexually.

hahaha.

I think someone put a curse on me somehow.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Well, I'm no longer and I'm too old for you.

Well that sucks!



...for you of course.

 

[vinylgroover]

a lot of woman look for intangibles in men......feel, vibe, all the sorts of signs that are led by their sub-conscious......which is why they get it so wrong so many times.

give me 10 minutes with 10 guys and i'll pick out the 3 that will be abusive husbands, however, women can't see that because they look for intangibles and go past the bleeding obvious like decency, respect, intelligence and so on.

anyway, marriages are falling apart simply because family values have fallen apart in modern society..........it's not surprising that with the erosion of family values over the last few decades, so too has divorce risen

 

[Whiskey]

I repeat. You'll have that.

I came close to marriage. We "were" talking about it a little. Then all of a sudden a friend of ours call me up and says congratulations!! I asked what for, "your upcoming marriage!!" he said. She had everything planned, date, when, where, what to eat, EVERYTHING, I didn't know about it yet. She was out of the apartment the next week.

Whiskey