Disturbing trend amongst alot of young guys i know that got married.....

[javaguru]

Not really, unless they have a fundamental defect children will respond favoritively to a nuturing enviromnt,

 

[EnderJE]

Not really, unless they have a fundamental defect children will respond favoritively to a nuturing enviromnt,

Wow. That's strong (the fundamental defect part).

I dunno. Too cut and dry. Methinks, some (perhaps too many) assumptions.

All kids who are in a loving environment turn out loving.
All kids who are in a gay environmetn turn out gay.
All kids who are in a violent environment turn out violent.

 

[javaguru]

Wow. That's strong (the fundamental defect part).

I dunno. Too cut and dry. Methinks, some (perhaps too many) assumptions.

All kids who are in a loving environment turn out loving.
All kids who are in a gay environmetn turn out gay.
All kids who are in a violent environment turn out violent.

Didn't say they would turn out loving, "they will respond favorably" which is 100% true. Some people are sociopaths and there isn't a lot you can do about it. Studies have shown abused children are more likely to become abusers. Children of addicts are more likely to be addicts. If you're raised in a dysfunctional environment you're more likely to be dysfunctional. Myself and all of my friends from high school were raised in "loving" homes with nurturing parents, we all turned out great and I don't think it's a coincidence.

 

[Frisky]

Didn't say they would turn out loving, "they will respond favorably" which is 100% true. Some people are sociopaths and there isn't a lot you can do about it. Studies have shown abused children are more likely to become abusers. Children of addicts are more likely to be addicts. If you're raised in a dysfunctional environment you're more likely to be dysfunctional. Myself and all of my friends from high school were raised in "loving" homes with nurturing parents, we all turned out great and I don't think it's a coincidence.

I agree, and therfore I broke the cycle of what i endured.

 

[EnderJE]

Relax...it's just the Internet.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I read the first few pages of this thread.

I almost married at 23 years old. I look back and think my lucky stars it didn't happen. There is no way it would have been a happy marriage.

I have changed a lot in those 7 years since.
Now I look at my married buddies and laugh at their misery and patheticness.

Have you seen that Army commercial where it says "And to think, some where some poor guy is buying a minivan" and shows some sap staring at the van then flashes to the army guys doing some pretty killer stuff? That is a great commercial and I try to live my life according. No minivan, routine days, boring ass marriage life for me. Not for a long time.

Plus, 80% of people cheat in marriages anyways, so why put myself thru that?

 

[EnderJE]

Because some marriages are happy ones? Because some people who are alone are depressive bastards who pray that they don't want up every night they sleep?

lmao at the army commercial, though...except I see it a little differently...

Just an idea.

 

[alien amp pharm]

and on the women are evil part...they are.

Now I know a lot of guys who cheat on their S.O. and they make me sick, but generally speaking American Women are the problems in relationships.

I will never treat another woman nicely for the rest of my life. The more you respect them and try to make them happy the worse off you end up getting screwed in the end.

Let's take recent events of 4 girls I know...

Girl 1 - Broke up with her BF of 4 years so she could date other guys. Now she wants him back but he doesn't know if that is what he wants, so I have to hear her whine and cry about it nonstop even though it was her own fault.

Girl 2 - Has told me money and looks doesn't matter to her. She can't find a BF and wonders why. Well New Years she found out this one guy dressed up nicely was my cousin. First words out of her mouth were "Does he have money?"

Girl 3 - I was seeing this girl who messed around with a married man and got hurt emotionally. She told me she would never get married. Well I found out last week she is engaged to a guy she's known for 3 months. HAHAHA.

Girl 4 - So I thought if I started dating a nice Christian girl things would be good. Well after 6 dates she tells me she isn't interested ONLY AFTER I call her out on it and ask what the deal is. So bascially she kept dating me, never once offering to pitch in on the cost of the dates, all along knowing she wasn't interested. Plus she never let me know she wasn't interested. What a f'ing cunt.

So basically females do not know what the hell they want. Never believe a word they say because they are all full of shit and good luck trying to please one...they are never satisfied either. (unless we are talking about sex with me)

 

[EnderJE]

and on the women are evil part...they are.

Now I know a lot of guys who cheat on their S.O. and they make me sick, but generally speaking American Women are the problems in relationships.

I will never treat another woman nicely for the rest of my life. The more you respect them and try to make them happy the worse off you end up getting screwed in the end.

Let's take recent events of 4 girls I know...

Girl 1 - Broke up with her BF of 4 years so she could date other guys. Now she wants him back but he doesn't know if that is what he wants, so I have to hear her whine and cry about it nonstop even though it was her own fault.

Girl 2 - Has told me money and looks doesn't matter to her. She can't find a BF and wonders why. Well New Years she found out this one guy dressed up nicely was my cousin. First words out of her mouth were "Does he have money?"

Girl 3 - I was seeing this girl who messed around with a married man and got hurt emotionally. She told me she would never get married. Well I found out last week she is engaged to a guy she's known for 3 months. HAHAHA.

Girl 4 - So I thought if I started dating a nice Christian girl things would be good. Well after 6 dates she tells me she isn't interested ONLY AFTER I call her out on it and ask what the deal is. So bascially she kept dating me, never once offering to pitch in on the cost of the dates, all along knowing she wasn't interested. Plus she never let me know she wasn't interested. What a f'ing cunt.

So basically females do not know what the hell they want. Never believe a word they say because they are all full of shit and good luck trying to please one...they are never satisfied either. (unless we are talking about sex with me)

Wow. So females generally boil down to those four, eh? Amazing. Thank god we've got you around.

BTW, the first one made me laugh. I know someone too.

 

[alien amp pharm]

lmao at the army commercial, though...except I see it a little differently...

Just an idea.

How do you see it?