any married men go out without their wife once a week?

[Phaded]

just curious..

 

[reno240]

Not with that kind of scheduled regularity, but close to it.

and do you mean just out with some friends?

 

[ortiz34]

As time goes on, you get the sour puss about.
Which in turn, makes you go out with the boys less and less.

 

[feisty11975]

If you are married, you should not want to go out without your spouse. Thats how it should be. Oh honey, its just a boys night out but I am sure they would not mind if you came along. tee hee hee

 

[gonelifting]

No, but our 'home theater' gets used a lot to spend time together when we can.

She has some wine, I have some blowjobs(actually no) and we watch a movie or some shows on the DVR that we've missed.

 

[Phaded]

wifey just gets mad when i go out with my friends.. i dont see why its such a big deal.. she expected me to completely quit going out once we got married.. shit just aint gonna happen.. and it aint even once a week its more like once a month.. but whatever.. i'm in the doghouse.. and i'm sad...

 

[feisty11975]

wifey just gets mad when i go out with my friends.. i dont see why its such a big deal.. she expected me to completely quit going out once we got married.. shit just aint gonna happen.. and it aint even once a week its more like once a month.. but whatever.. i'm in the doghouse.. and i'm sad...

thats part of being married. I am sure lots of people here tried to talk you out of it and gave reasons not to do it. This IS one that would have been addressed.

 

[seaking420]

wifey just gets mad when i go out with my friends.. i dont see why its such a big deal.. she expected me to completely quit going out once we got married.. shit just aint gonna happen.. and it aint even once a week its more like once a month.. but whatever.. i'm in the doghouse.. and i'm sad

I try to go out with my brother or my friends once in a while. I try once a month but that dosent happen. My woman dosent mind much, but likes to put the guilt thing on me when I do. The way I look at it is you need some balance in your life. Spending sometime with her, your friends, and yourself every so often helps your relationship.

 

[reno240]

wifey just gets mad when i go out with my friends.. i dont see why its such a big deal.. she expected me to completely quit going out once we got married.. shit just aint gonna happen.. and it aint even once a week its more like once a month.. but whatever.. i'm in the doghouse.. and i'm sad...

This is one of the reasons I married the woman I did. She SINCERELY does not get bothered by the fact that I WANT to see my friends without her around and vice versa. Like I said - it's not once a week - but it's important to me.

 

[gonelifting]

Oops, sorry I read the thread title wrong. I thought you said "out WITH the WIFE once a week."

Ehhh.


My wife actually WANTS me to go out with my buddies. She says she likes it when I go out and have some fun just for a break. Problem is, I don't have 'buddies' so I stay home 24/7.


My advise to you, if you want to hear it... If not, turn the volume down NOW....

You better have a long talk about this with her. Things WILL NOT get better on their own, trust me. It needs to be adressed and maybe you guys can come up with a reasonable solution to this going out to strip clubs thing. Maybe you can set a "once a month" twice a month" or whatever thing and she'll go for it. This way she doesn't feel like second place or something.

I'm not a fan of "rules" like the one I just described, but I see some people need them to be happy. Maybe you guys do. Good luck.