Guys i could use some input

[theoak01]

ive been having some real job problems here

I get plenty of job offers and I always find something wrong with the job and end up not taking it

the two most recent were burger king which i came to the conclusion that i didnt want fast foods long hours and shit money so i turned that job down

and I just scored a sweet position in a Nextell call center,now this would have got my college looked after and i would have had some decent spending money,but i had to work christmas and boxing day and my grandparents are getting old and on top of that family is very important to me so i said well now is not a good time to start and maybe in the new year if there is a orientation id start then

and here I am happy but jobless and dont have a clue why i turned these jobs down,maybe its a mental thing as ive been out of work so long but I cant put my finger on it

anybody else ever get like this?

no smart ass comment im serious here

 

[PolishHammer1977]

Oak,

When your young and your going for a "job", you have to accept certain things. Having to work holidays happens to be one of them. I had all kinds of jobs before and through college. You do what you have to do and be proud of yourself for the effort. Sooner or later it will work out for you.

Stay on the straight and narrow path. Rough is the road to the heights of greatness.

 

[theoak01]

I realize all of that and still dont know why i turn this shit down

i honestly think i have some mental block

would anyone else turn down a job to spend holidays with their family?

 

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[Drunken_Weasel]

If it was possible.. You should have taken the BK job, then when the holiday's are over. Try to move over to the better job.

 

[2Thick]

Unless you are starving, forget the job until after the holidays.

Working is overrarted.

 

[danielson]

if it puts food on the table do it.....if you can truly afford to wait then do so by all means but it might be better to take the job and earn and wait at the same time

 

[fallenangel]

just got a full time job myself i start in two weeks and its a pain i'm really anxious about it and not sleeping, think its just the change in routine

 

[notoriousQQ]

Polish H was right, with part time employment working some of the shit hours, holidays and shifts is the nature of the beast. They are trying to help supplement their human resources available to give employees who work there or are higher on the totam pole the premium days off and shifts they desire.

Fuck it, hold out for the management position like Cousin Eddie in National Lampoon's Vacation.

 

[cure]

I'm sorry but it's not a mental block or anything else of that sort. I would just call it making excuses and lazyness. I've been working since 14 years old and have never been picky with a job. Whatever was there which put food on my table i took, shut my mouth and stuck it out until something better came along.

I never depended on my family, the government or hand me downs and i'm proud i ran my life like that. Grandparents might be getting old but what the hell is christmas? I visit my GP like 3 times a week and spend about 4-5 hours with them each time. To me christmas is just another excuse to see family but what about the other 364 days?

In conclusion...do something with your life.