when only dating someone you are just forming an opinion about the many diverse facets of there nature and considering if this coupling is to become like two people coming together as one totally fulfilled essence of mingling energies, building and intensifying into a feeling of aliveness that words can sometimes express,......... so this would in essence go towards building a complete picture of them.mmmmm yea completely trashey.seriously though i cant see it causing a man any real concern as long as they are smaller than....... pool balls.