Need help

[Foxxxy]

Im in love with my best friend, she knows this but she doesnt like me back and im really depressed from it. We hangout all the time and she says she loves me but like a best friend would. I really wanna win her over but idk what to do or how to start! Please someone help.

edit: She also flurts with me constantly and then she says she doesnt like me so shes like messing with my head. I NEED ADVICE AHHH!

 

[Underwraps]

Uh, maybe she's not physically attracted to you at all, but likes all else. But, w/o sexual attraction, it can't be a romantic relationship. Or, if she could be attracted to you, but itsn't, maybe it's the nice guy syndrome. Yahoo personals had a good article on why nice guys (and girls) finish last. It's a value thing. When you are there, eager, easy, needy, available, no challenge it all equals you aren't "valuable". There's no chase. There has to be a sense of competition against others to get you. Subliminally your easy to win over-ness says to her, you aren't valuable. It's that stupid human instinct and it's a mind game and I think it's dumb. Besides, if she's your best friend and you tell her EVERYTHING, maybe she doesn't like how you've treated the women in your life, or she knows what a push over YOU have been in those relationships. Something is missing in the formula. Attraction? Competition? Your selfishness? Your weakness? Your inability to communicate? Your height? Your bad breath? Your B.O.? Your lack of sensuality? Yes, it could be anything.... Oh, and as for her flirting. RU sure? What is it she does to flirt? That's just mean if she knows she's flirting and teasing. Or, the sex isn't worth losing you as a good buddy and source for attention when she needs it.

 

[Foxxxy]

shes def flurting, that constant unneeded touchy ness. etc.

 

[BNG]

You're safe.
Chicks need a thrill, to feel like they are doing something others can't. You can and should start dating around. A little "bad Boy" behavior chicks find irresistible. Your coming off being soft and it's not working. NEVER WILL!

Go out with some hot ass wild woman and tell her just enough to get her curious, NO MORE.
Go out with the guys, tell her you all went out and had a great time. Don't tell her a thing about it.
Disappear for a week end, no contact, don't say shit when she asks. It's none ya. None ya damn business.

Your being a pussy and she's not into pussies.

 

[Foxxxy]

alright thanks

 

[chris302001]

your name is foxxxy and you have a penis????????

riddle me that batman

 

[Foxxxy]

lastname

 

[DJ_UFO]

I thought the same about your name man. "Foxxxy" is a cunt name. Change it.

About your problem, forget about her. Stop seeing her. Get as much pussy as you can and you will forget. After a while, she will realize you don't hang out with her anymore, and you're fuckin like a horse around, and she might have interest then. If she doesn't, who cares? Remember "Love" is a transitory state of imbecility, in which you are unable to properly use reason. Only through a deep introspection you might be able to find the path.

 

[Foxxxy]

thansk and how the fuck do i change it
( the name)

 

[twenty47]

id say bang a few hot girls and be more of a badass. When i worked in the health club industry all the girls that worked there thought i was a "slut" and would give me shit. well guess what when it came down to one on one i banged 5 of them. all the hot ones. and most of them knew about the others bc they were friends. they would say i was a player this and that around other people so they dont look bad but when they would come over they knew what they wanted.

be a badass. i was a pussy in hs and i got very limited pussy lol.