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Giovanni Casanova's Autobiography, Anyone ever read it?

Dirk Howat

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Giovanni Casanova's Autobiography, Anyone ever read it?
I read it. Interesting.


First, he lived his life as he wanted it, not by societies standards.
He lived for pleasure.
He came into money because he was likable and he befriended a older patriarch who had no kids and basically adopted him as his son and was given an inherientch.
He spent all of his money on women.
He was a vagabond.
He carried a variety of cologne with him.
He was good looking.
His seduction method was to act inoffensive and play with a girl. He would just be non threatening, and have fun with her, which lead to sex. It was all fun and the girls knew it was about fun and pleasure.
He always cared about his girls. In fact, he would try to set up his girls with other guys for them to marry after he left.
He turned down many offers of marriage. He was not the marrying type. He knew what marriage lead to: laziness, work, degradation of self, while being single led to self improvement and freedom.
He was about freedom and pleasure.
 
Casanova's Sexual Technique:

From what I glean from his autobiography,

Tantric Sex
physical mirroring


establish physical and spiritual rapport to get the greatest emphathy which is the ability to feel her and know what SHE wants. Merging.

And this is my take, understand what she likes because of this rapport, you know when she wants it slow, or fast and deep, holding, to acheive multiple orgasms.
 
fucking excellent idea...i'm going to find this and read it. to be one of the best, you have to learn from one of the best
 
Yah, good read. You can learn a few things from him. Basically, the more you are around them and have sex with them, the better you get, understand them and have fun with them. Here is a great book I read on seduction ( a synopsis):


The Seduction Process

Robert Greene





1 Choose the Right Victim

Everything depends on the target of your seduction. Study your prey thoroughly, and choose only those who will prove susceptible to your charms. The right victim are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic. They are often isolated or unhappy, or can easily be made so for the completely contented person is almost impossible to seduce. The perfnspires strong emotions in you, making your seductive maneuvers seem more natural and dynamic. The perfect victim has some quality that that inspires strong emotions in you, making your seductive maneuvers seem more natural and dynamic. The perfect victim allows for the perfect chase.



2 Create a False Sense of Security Approach Indirectly.

If you are too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that will never be lowered. At first there must be nothing of the seducer in your manner. The seduction should begin at an angle, indirectly, so that the target only gradually becomes aware of you. Haunt the periphery of your target's life --- approach through a third party, or seem to cultivate a relatively neutral relationship, moving gradually from friend to lover. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike.



3 Send Mixed Signals

Once people are aware of your presence, and perhaps vaguely, you need to stir their interest before it settles on someone else. Most of us are much too obvious--instead, be hared to figure out. Send mixed signal: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthly, both an elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into our circle. Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you.



4 Appear to Be an Object of Desire ---Create Triangles.

Few are drawn to the person whom others avoid or neglect; people gather around those who have already attracted interested. To draw your victims closer and make them hungry to possess you, you must create an aura of desirability ---of being wanted an courted by many. It will become a point of vanity for them to be the preferred object of your attention, to win you away form a crowd of admirers. Build a reputation that precedes you: If many have succumbed to your charms, there must be a reason.



5 Create a Need -- Stir Anxiety and Discontent

A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced. Tension and disharmony must be instilled in your targets' minds. Stir within them feelings of discontent, an unhappiness with their circumstances and with themselves. The feelings of inadequacy that you create will give you space to the proper precursors to pleasure. Learn to manufacture the need that you can fill.



6 Master the Art of Insinuation

Making your targets feel dissatisfied and in need of your attention is essential, but if you are too obvious , they will see through you and grow defensive. There is no known defense, however, against insinuation --the art of planting ideas on people's minds by dropping elusive hints that take root days later, even appearing to them as their own idea. Create a sub language-- with alluring glances -- that enters the target's unconscious to convey your real meaning. Make everything suggestive.



7 Enter Their Spirit

Most people are locked in their own worlds, making them stubborn and hard to persuade. The way to lure them out of their shell and set up your seduction is to enter their spirit. Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods. In doing so you will stoke their deep=rooted narcissism and lower their defenses Indulge your targets' every mood and whim, giving them nothing to react against or resist.



8 Create Temptation

Lure the target deep into your seduction by creating the proper temptation.; a glimpse of the pleasure to come. As the serpent tempted Eve with the promise of forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a desire in our targets that they cannot control. Find that weakness of their, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that you can lead them toward it. The key is to keep it vague. Stimulate a curiosity stronger than the doubts and anxieties that go with it, and they will follow you.



9 Keep Them in Suspense --What Comes Next?

The moment people feel they know what to expect form you, your spell on them is broken. More: You have ceded them power. The only way to lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a calculated surprise. Doing something they do not expect from you will ie them a delightful sense of spontaneity --they will not be able to foresee what comes next. You are always one step ahead and in control. Give the victim a thrill with a sudden change of direction.



10 Use the Demonic Power of words to Sow Confusion

It is hard to make people listen; they are consumed with their own thoughts and desires, and have little time for yours. The trick to making them listen is to say what they want to hear, to fill their ears with whatever is pleasant to them. This is the essence of seductive language. Inflame people's emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities, envelop them in sweet words and promises, and not only will they listen to you, they will lose their will to resist you.



11 Pay Attention to Detail

Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious: Why are you trying so hard to please? The details of a seduction --- the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do--are often more charming and revealing. You must learn to distract your victims with a myriad of pleasant little rituals--thoughtful gifts tailored just for them, clothes and adornments designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention you are paying them. Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what you are really up to.



12 Poeticize Your Presence

Important things happen when your targets are alone: The slightest feeling of relief that you are not there, an it is allover. Familiarity and overexposure will cause this reaction. Remain elusive, then. Intrigue your targets by alternating an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant moments followed by calculated absences. Associate yourself with poetic images an objects, so that when they thing of you, they begin to see you through an idealized halo. The more you figure in their minds, the more they will envelop you in seductive fantasies.



13 Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability

Too much maneuvering on your part may raise suspicion. The best way to over your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make our actions look more natural, less calculated. Physical weakness--tears, bashfulness, paleness--will help create the effect . Play the victim, then transform your target's sympathy into love.



14 Confuse Desire and Reality--The Perfect Illusion

To compensate for the difficulties in their lives, people spend a lot of their time daydreaming, imagining a future full of adventure, success, and romance. If you can create the illusion that through you they can live out their dreams, you will have them at your mercy. Aim at secret wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable emotions, clouding their powers of reason. Lead the seduced to a point of confusion in which they can o longer tell the difference between illusion and reality.



15 Isolate the Victim

An isolated person is weak. By slowly isolating your victims, you make them more vulnerable to your influence. Take them away from their normal milieu, friends, family, home. Give them the sense of being marginalized, in limbo--they are leaving one world behind and entering another. Once isolated like this, they have no outside support, and in their confusion they are easily led astray. Lure the seduced into your lair, where nothing is familiar.



16 Prove Yourself

Most people want to be seduced. If they resist your efforts, it is probably because you have not gonbetheir far enough to allay their doubts--about your motives, the depth of our feelings, and so on. One well-timed action that shows are you are willing to go to win them over will dispel their doubts. Do not worry about looking foolish or making a mistake--any kind of deed that is self-sacrificing and for your targets' sake will so overwhelm their emotions, they won't notice anything else.



17 Effect a Regression

People who have experienced a certain kind of pleasure in the past will try to repeat or relive it. The deepest-rooted and most pleasurable memories are usually those from earliest childhood, and are often unconsciously associated with a parental figure. Bring your targets back to that point by placing yourself in the oedipal triangle and positioning them as the need y child. Unaware of the cause of their emotional response, they will fall in love with you.



18 Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo

There are always social limits on what one can do . Some of this, the most elemental taboos, go back centuries; others are more superficial, simply defining polite and acceptable behavior. Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely seductive. People yearn to explore their dark side. Once the desire to transgress draws your targets to you, it will be hard for them to stop. Take them farther than they imaging--the shared feeling of guilt and complicity will relate a powerful bond



19 Use Spiritual Lures

Everyone has doubts an insecurities=about their body, their self-worth, their sexuality. If your deduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up those doubts and make your targets self-conscious. Instead , lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on a spiritual mist, the target will feel light an uninhibited. Deepen the effect of your seduction by making it sexual culmination seem like the spiritual union of two souls.



20 Mix Pleasure with Pain

The greatest mistake in seduction is being too nice. At first, perhaps, your kindness is charming, but it soon grows monotonous,; you are trying too hard to please and seem insecure. Instead of overwhelming your targets with niceness, try inflicting some pain. Make them feel guilty an insecure. Instigate a breakup--now a rapprochement, a return to your earlier kindness, will turn them walk at the knees. The lower the lows you create, the greater the highs. To heighten the erotic charge, create the excitement of fear.



21 Give Them Space to Fall--The Pursuer Is Pursued

If your targets become too used to you as a aggressor, they will give less of their own energy, and the tension will slacken. You need to wake them up, turn the tables. Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you. Hint that you are growing bored. Seem interested in someone else. Soon they will want to possess you physically, and restraint will go out the window. Create the illusion that the seducer is being seduced.



22 Use Physical Lures

Targets with active minds are dangerous: If they see through your manipulations, they may suddenly develop doubts. Put their minds gently to rest, and waken their dormant senses, by combining a non defensive attitude with a hared sexual presence. While your cool, nonchalant air is lowering their inhibitions, your glances, voice, and bearing--oozing sex and desire--are getting under their skin and raising their temperature. Never force the physical; instead infect your targets with heat, lure them into lust. Morality, judgment, and concern for the future will all melt away.



23 Master the Art of the Bold Move

A moment has arrived: Your victim clearly desires you, but is not ready to admit it openly, let alone act on it. This is the time to throw aside chivalry, kindness, and coquetry and to overwhelm with a bold move. Don't give the victim time to consider the consequences. Showing hesitation or awkwardness means you are thing of yourself, as opposed to being overwhelmed by the victim's charms. One person must go on the offensive, and it is you.



24 Beware the Aftereffects

Danger follows in the aftermath of a successful seduction. After emotions have reached a pitch, they often swing in the opposite direction---toward lassitude, distrust, disappointment. If you are to part, make the sacrifice swift and sudden If you are to stay in a relationship, beware a flagging of energy, a creeping familiarity that will spoil the fantasy. A second seduction is required Never let the other person take you for granted--use absence, create pain an conflict, to keep the seduced on tenterhooks.
 
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