Ask yourself if you would want your chick doing what you may be thinking about doing, and if the answer is no I would not, then you better put willie the one eyed wonder back in his cage and head for the door.
in the end, it is all relative to what you have decided with your SO. I know dudes that let other dudes ram their wives and vice versa. I also know dudes that will get reamed for even going to a strip club.
Right you are, KillahBee. It all depends on your relationship with your SO. But if your woman gets pisssed because you go to a strip club, you should probably go else where for a long term relationship.