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View Poll Results: Which of these are considered cheating?

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  • Getting a Massage with a happy ending

    100 54.95%
  • Going to a strip club

    14 7.69%
  • Getting a lap dance

    29 15.93%
  • Getting a lap dance and climaxing

    57 31.32%
  • Kissing someone besides your significant other

    132 72.53%
  • None Of the Above

    32 17.58%
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Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?


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Excerpt: Say you are married, or have a girlfriend and you go get a massage, complete with happy ending (rub and a tug). Is that considered cheating? Would it violate an infidelity clause in a prenup? I know some women take issue with it, just like some women take issue with their man going to a strip club, but that isnt cheating. Is a LAP dance cheating? What if you get a lap dance and climax?

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Lestat
    Say you are married, or have a girlfriend and you go get a massage, complete with happy ending (rub and a tug).


    Is that considered cheating?

    Would it violate an infidelity clause in a prenup?

    I know some women take issue with it, just like some women take issue with their man going to a strip club, but that isnt cheating.

    Is a LAP dance cheating? What if you get a lap dance and climax?

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    letme think, nah!!!! its part of the message! lol jk its def cheating,.....so where is this happy ending place loacted? i had one in the city but it got shut down =[

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by The Shadow
    General Rule...if You Would Not Do It In Front Of The So....its Def Cheating
    Not to say you can't do it or its wrong for everyone..

    Just be aware of the possible consequences if she finds out
    and your own guilt..

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    bunch of fucking cheaters here

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Phaded
    fucking is the only real cheat
    So if your girl slobs on some other guy's knob....it ain't cheating?

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    What uptight backward ass mother fucker said going to a strip club is cheating..?

    holy fuck pull the bible out of your ass.

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Milo Hobgoblin
    What uptight backward ass mother fucker said going to a strip club is cheating..?

    holy fuck pull the bible out of your ass.
    samoth, sorerotators, and strangebrew did....
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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Personally, if my girl went to get a massage and the dude flicked the bean, I DON'T CARE!

    If she was at a bachelorette and there was a male stripper and she touched his cock, I DON'T CARE.

    If she has sex with some dude, I'll care, because that is more of a health issue.

    To me cheating is deception, if I asked her abuot the stripper or massage and she lied, I'd be pissed, but as long as it was upfront, who gives a shit. A relationship is built on the emotional connection and trust, what you do physically is just that, PHYSICAL.

    If she went to a massage therapist, and during the session, became EMOTIONALLY attached to the dude.. I'd be pissed... physically... nah not really. We've messed around with other girls, and its just because it feels good, nothing more, it stops there.

    What's the difference between me eating out another chick with her in the room or with her not in the room? As long as she knows about it, its fine right?
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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Lestat
    Personally, if my girl went to get a massage and the dude flicked the bean, I DON'T CARE!

    If she was at a bachelorette and there was a male stripper and she touched his cock, I DON'T CARE.

    If she has sex with some dude, I'll care, because that is more of a health issue.

    To me cheating is deception, if I asked her abuot the stripper or massage and she lied, I'd be pissed, but as long as it was upfront, who gives a shit. A relationship is built on the emotional connection and trust, what you do physically is just that, PHYSICAL.

    If she went to a massage therapist, and during the session, became EMOTIONALLY attached to the dude.. I'd be pissed... physically... nah not really. We've messed around with other girls, and its just because it feels good, nothing more, it stops there.

    What's the difference between me eating out another chick with her in the room or with her not in the room? As long as she knows about it, its fine right?
    Everybody has their own thang!


    Personally .. I wouldn't have it.

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    if you felt my cock and i had my hands in your cooch you would be saying it to....this shit has happened to me like 20x already , so it wasnt a big deal...i just got that effect on these bitches.

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Lestat
    Personally, if my girl went to get a massage and the dude flicked the bean, I DON'T CARE!

    If she was at a bachelorette and there was a male stripper and she touched his cock, I DON'T CARE.

    If she has sex with some dude, I'll care, because that is more of a health issue.

    To me cheating is deception, if I asked her abuot the stripper or massage and she lied, I'd be pissed, but as long as it was upfront, who gives a shit. A relationship is built on the emotional connection and trust, what you do physically is just that, PHYSICAL.

    If she went to a massage therapist, and during the session, became EMOTIONALLY attached to the dude.. I'd be pissed... physically... nah not really. We've messed around with other girls, and its just because it feels good, nothing more, it stops there.

    What's the difference between me eating out another chick with her in the room or with her not in the room? As long as she knows about it, its fine right?
    If both of you know about and approve, of course it's not cheating. However, that's one in a million. For the vast majority, those options are all cheating with the exception of just going to a strip club. IMO

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Lestat
    Personally, if my girl went to get a massage and the dude flicked the bean, I DON'T CARE!

    If she was at a bachelorette and there was a male stripper and she touched his cock, I DON'T CARE.

    If she has sex with some dude, I'll care, because that is more of a health issue.

    To me cheating is deception, if I asked her abuot the stripper or massage and she lied, I'd be pissed, but as long as it was upfront, who gives a shit. A relationship is built on the emotional connection and trust, what you do physically is just that, PHYSICAL.

    If she went to a massage therapist, and during the session, became EMOTIONALLY attached to the dude.. I'd be pissed... physically... nah not really. We've messed around with other girls, and its just because it feels good, nothing more, it stops there.

    What's the difference between me eating out another chick with her in the room or with her not in the room? As long as she knows about it, its fine right?
    As long as the two of you agree it is fine, then yes it is fine. I personally would not be OK with it. It doesn't mean you are wrong or I am right, it just means that you and I define relationships in different terms.

    For me, a serious relationship is a monogamous one, both emotionally AND physically. They are intertwined for me, obviously you are able to disconnect the two. That also probably explains why I've only been with 5 women my whole life and you've been with over 5 dozen. But then, I've never had a relationship that lasted less than a year, either.

    When I give myself to someone, I give all of myself to them, but ONLY to them, and I expect the same in return. IMHO relationships require constant attention and commitment to be successful, and if you need (or want) to go outside the relationship to have sexual or emotional needs taken care of then there is something wrong with the relationship. It's just the way I am and what I believe in.

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