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View Poll Results: Which of these are considered cheating?

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  • Getting a Massage with a happy ending

    100 54.95%
  • Going to a strip club

    14 7.69%
  • Getting a lap dance

    29 15.93%
  • Getting a lap dance and climaxing

    57 31.32%
  • Kissing someone besides your significant other

    132 72.53%
  • None Of the Above

    32 17.58%
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Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?


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Excerpt: Say you are married, or have a girlfriend and you go get a massage, complete with happy ending (rub and a tug). Is that considered cheating? Would it violate an infidelity clause in a prenup? I know some women take issue with it, just like some women take issue with their man going to a strip club, but that isnt cheating. Is a LAP dance cheating? What if you get a lap dance and climax?

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  1. #41
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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by The Shadow
    General Rule...if You Would Not Do It In Front Of The So....its Def Cheating
    well said, i agree

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Just imagine what you'd think if the SO did the same or equivalent. Would you feel cheated on if you knew about it?

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Lestat
    I just dont get it...


    you can get your ass massaged, your back, your face, your head, your feet.. right

    But the second she touches your nuts, is THAT cheating?

    What if you are getting a masssage and get a hard on.. is that cheating?

    What if she un intentionally brushes your cock.. is that cheating? What if she goes for it, but you didn't want it... is that rape?

    I just think its lame, you can get a massage and its fun, but the second your genitals are touched its a no no?

    Say you get married and your wife goes to get a massage by a man, and he uses his fingers to masterbate her by rubbing her clit and inserting fingers into your wife's vagina until she cums. Is she cheating on you? Or is she just getting her clit massaged? Say he uses his tongue to massage her clit, is it still OK? What if his fingers aren't enough to adequately "massage" her vagina and he needs to use his penis to do it, has she crossed the line yet?

    You can't have it both ways B, if it's OK for you then it's OK for your SO too. Would you be fine with that? I know I wouldn't, thus I would consider it cheating and off limits.

    In the end it's all just opinions. I believe that anything you wouldn't do in front of your SO is cheating. You seem to believe that anything short of actual fucking is acceptable behavior. We just have different definitions of cheating, as do many people.

    That's why it's important for couples to discuss shit like this so they know where the boundaries are. I'm guessing you would be hesitant to tell your GF that you consider handjobs at massage parlors not cheating, and if your not comfortable telling her that then you should question if it's really OK or not in the first place...

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Forge
    Say you get married and your wife goes to get a massage by a man, and he uses his fingers to masterbate her by rubbing her clit and inserting fingers into your wife's vagina until she cums. Is she cheating on you? Or is she just getting her clit massaged? Say he uses his tongue to massage her clit, is it still OK? What if his fingers aren't enough to adequately "massage" her vagina and he needs to use his penis to do it, has she crossed the line yet?
    I was convinced a rub & tug was not cheating until I read this shit. Good post brovah!

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    23 people lost IQ points by reading this thread.


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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Forge
    Say you get married and your wife goes to get a massage by a man, and he uses his fingers to masterbate her by rubbing her clit and inserting fingers into your wife's vagina until she cums. Is she cheating on you? Or is she just getting her clit massaged? Say he uses his tongue to massage her clit, is it still OK? What if his fingers aren't enough to adequately "massage" her vagina and he needs to use his penis to do it, has she crossed the line yet?

    You can't have it both ways B, if it's OK for you then it's OK for your SO too. Would you be fine with that? I know I wouldn't, thus I would consider it cheating and off limits.

    In the end it's all just opinions. I believe that anything you wouldn't do in front of your SO is cheating. You seem to believe that anything short of actual fucking is acceptable behavior. We just have different definitions of cheating, as do many people.

    That's why it's important for couples to discuss shit like this so they know where the boundaries are. I'm guessing you would be hesitant to tell your GF that you consider handjobs at massage parlors not cheating, and if your not comfortable telling her that then you should question if it's really OK or not in the first place...
    booyah

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    NONE OF THE ABOVE!

    Good post, there is no way a happy ending is cheating, its as non personal as the massage to begin with. I concider it theraputic, and meaningless!, picking up a chick in a bar, and taking her to the parking lot where she jerks u off, is however cheating. The difference, one is for medicinal purposes!

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by AlphamaleStS
    NONE OF THE ABOVE!

    Good post, there is no way a happy ending is cheating, its as non personal as the massage to begin with. I concider it theraputic, and meaningless!, picking up a chick in a bar, and taking her to the parking lot where she jerks u off, is however cheating. The difference, one is for medicinal purposes!
    So you would be fine with your wife having a man massage her clit or finger her to orgasm? I think not. You're lying to yourself if you say yes.

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    dayum...........most of ya'll wouldn't like living in nawlinz!!!
    "no one bombs RNCH again!--need2getaas"

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    Re: Is getting a massage with a happy ending cheating?

    Quote Quote posted by Gymgurl
    So if there is no happy ending...then it does not count?
    LOL


    Now lestat... honestly do you actually think its not cheating? COME ON

    LOL

    Anything to do with my feel good spots... LOL.. and it not being my man would be cheating. Same goes for him. Ask your self if you'd want her to do <to another guy> what it is that girl is doing to you ... if your answer is NO then you shouldn't do it either.

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    I have a small penis
    Quote Quote posted by NJjuice22
    if you felt my cock and i had my hands in your cooch you would be saying it to....this shit has happened to me like 20x already , so it wasnt a big deal...i just got that effect on these bitches.

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