Do memebers of the opposite sex intimidate you?

[Bobber]

Damn I didn't know I was sharing a board such big pimps! I am glad to know I am the only guy on here that thinks some women, aesthetically, are out of his league.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Whew, glad I'm not Bobber.

 

[Bobber]

Whew, glad I'm not Bobber.

Dick.

 

[theoak01]

Until I get to know someone and am kinda comfortable around them I dont say much

 

[jerseyart]

Damn I didn't know I was sharing a board such big pimps! I am glad to know I am the only guy on here that thinks some women, aesthetically, are out of his league.

What is she going to do to you bor, say Im not interested?

What exactly scares/intimidates you?

 

[Bobber]

What is she going to do to you bor, say Im not interested?

What exactly scares/intimidates you?

She was just fucking hot as hell. It's not like all women intimidate me, just the really really hot ones that I don't know. And I guess fear of rejection is why I am ":scared".

 

[-SD-]

She was just fucking hot as hell. It's not like all women intimidate me, just the really really hot ones that I don't know. And I guess fear of rejection is why I am ":scared".

Your intimidation is a result of your acute awareness of what heavenly bliss it must be to have sex with said woman, and that makes it hard to relax and be yourself because you are paralyzed at the thought of getting rejected by such a hot woman. That = intinidation. The key is to not place so much mental awareness on the sex and also realize that if she turns you down you will not actually stop living.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

they say hi and im so nervous i say hi back but something like forest gump would do. they immediately pick up on it and laugh and ask me if im shy. i felt like a moron.

I know this feeling and circumstance far to well

U can't show intimdation.. ppl view it as weakness

This is true, unfortunately.

 

[BUBBLES]

I will give you a tip, pretend you have no sexual feelings towards the opposite sex EVEN if they are the hotest people on the planet.

Think of them as a little pet. Then you won't be intimidated. Disconnect your feelings of attraction until you establish in your mind that it is safe to flirt with that person and he/she returns the favour. If you don't you will get shy, say the wrong thing and come out with some awful body gesticulation you never knew you were capable of doing and stuff up your chances.

Just be cool and think about what the other person is saying not how her boobs look and how she would look in the kitchen only in her apron doing the dishes, legs spread apart like an eagle.

 

[TC2]

Damn I didn't know I was sharing a board such big pimps! I am glad to know I am the only guy on here that thinks some women, aesthetically, are out of his league.

Bro.. people are people, don't put ANYBODY on a pedestal.

It has nothing to do with being a pimp, it has everything to do with not giving that person that power over you.