exactly 20 days after I last saw my husband I'm getting all worked up again ugh... I have "assistance" in the matter that takes care of the physical desire, but the fantasies, memories and general hornyness wont cool off, specially the fantasies
long story short, we are moving from CR to US, I came first got a job and claimed him in the embassy but they are being bitches and dont let him come yet, have seen him 48 hours total since march 3rd when i moved to FL....
nope i don't have any experience in this area and i couldn't imagine being away from kathy that long! we are a little enmeshed but our analyst assures us that it's ok if we are ok with it.
wow! i hope you guys get this sorted out soon. in the meantime, be diligent
in your pursuit to get him here and don't isolate. get out, make some friends
and get some good positive peeps to talk to. if it gets overwhelming, go help
someone who's got it worse than you. works 100% of the time.
the more you try to avoid these feelings, fantasies ect... the worse it will
be. "what you resist persists."