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Strongbow
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Man fuck them paragraphs, that shit is for trained ngrs. the man wants you to use paragraphs, I says fuck da man and I ain't using his paragraphs.
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Spoiled Fucking Brats
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Man fuck them paragraphs, that shit is for trained ngrs. the man wants you to use paragraphs, I says fuck da man and I ain't using his paragraphs.
What's a good car valuation site?
Plank wanna help me estimate what my Rover is worth?
There will be some karma in it for you
Or butt play
Plank wanna help me estimate what my Rover is worth?
There will be some karma in it for you
Or butt play
Strongbow
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Wanting something used at all is a sign of humility where he goes to school. Fucking 16 year olds driving Beemers, Benzs, and 60k 4wd pick ups everywhere. The cheapest thing in the parking lot last year was a 2011 Dodge Challenger that's prolly a 35k collar car. Besides as long as he runs that fucking pig skin and makes them grades, he will save me a helluva lot more than 38k, so he's earning it.
caligirl85
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I think, as a parent, it's also important to be aware of the child and ensure it's their goals and dreams vs our own. I totally agree with just about everything SB is saying and am of a similar mindset. More parents need to instill hard working values in their children. The thing is, they're not all genetically gifted and they do need to learn a balance. I work in child psychiatry and sometimes we get kids in who have attempted suicide because the pressure to perform at home/ school is soooo high and they can't manage it. They would rather be "sick" than tell their parents it's too much or not what they really want to do.
Don't get me wrong. I push my son hard and he's looking at college athletic scholarships and we're in negotiations currently but there was a point, where it got to be a lot and he wasn't sure if he wanted to continue on. I had to take a step back and realize that I was putting even more pressure on him and I had to accept the fact that he'd still be a great kid even if he decided to leave his sport. It would have broken my heart but it's his life.
The main point is....know your kid. Find the balance. And love them no matter what.
Don't get me wrong. I push my son hard and he's looking at college athletic scholarships and we're in negotiations currently but there was a point, where it got to be a lot and he wasn't sure if he wanted to continue on. I had to take a step back and realize that I was putting even more pressure on him and I had to accept the fact that he'd still be a great kid even if he decided to leave his sport. It would have broken my heart but it's his life.
The main point is....know your kid. Find the balance. And love them no matter what.
Strongbow
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Well said, and I agree. You cant forse a child to achieve unattainable goals. I have never forced sports on my kds only stated that if you so choose to play you will work your ass off to be as good as you can be. You will not blame others for your failures, in fact you should be so great that when and if your team mate fails you can tote his load as well as your own. Many will not agree with that, but many are pathetic losers who blame everyone but themselves for the bad shit that happens to them and instill the same half ass morals into their children. We like to call them Democrats where I live.
For Mitch another paragraph. Cali the best way I have found to take that step back is to leave shit on the field on the field. We do not talk about things we can not change, we only learn from those things and train in the areas that we are weak to be better. My kids don't get the whole ride home shake down about all the shit they didn't do. We have a great relationship and I respect his work ethic and I know that nobody wants to succeed more than he does for himself and for his team. Our parent kid relationship does not revolve around sports, we just have an understanding of what is work time and what is play time. I have lived my life, I refuse to consume my kids life so that I can have another chance, when you lose sight of that things can get out of hand and you will push your kid away from sports or anything else for that matter.
I agree Cali. Abby isn't my mirror. Her identity is hers. She is free to become who she wants to be.
I think parents focus too much on grades and sports and don't even consider if their kids grow up to be people with integrity. Balance is important. We push them to the edge, silently teaching them that their worth to us is based on how they perform so they can succeed and be a consumer in the future, then we turn around and call them spoiled when they ask for expensive clothes, shoes and vehicles when all they've done is accept the truth we've taught them: their value is based on what they have and not who they are.
I think parents focus too much on grades and sports and don't even consider if their kids grow up to be people with integrity. Balance is important. We push them to the edge, silently teaching them that their worth to us is based on how they perform so they can succeed and be a consumer in the future, then we turn around and call them spoiled when they ask for expensive clothes, shoes and vehicles when all they've done is accept the truth we've taught them: their value is based on what they have and not who they are.
I aint readin shit in this bish till we start spacing fucking shit out
