It was a choice I made to take a time out from the social world. I could give you a bunch of sob stories but it was my choice. The old people stuff....probably a little self projection going on there.
It's a meet up group. The latest thing in socializing. This one is to go do activities....archery, zombie runs, scuba diving, skydiving....bang the organizer too, apparently.
In hindsight...waiting was stupid.