doesn't sound like someone who should be kept among the ranks of one of your best friends. not every guy is into muscular chicks...just as not every female digs the ripped up look on males. for every girl that tells me my ass has too much bubbly ghetto going on, i have a handful that dig it. focus on the positive and let the negative slide off your back.
i hope this thread doesn't bring out the influx of female comments along the nature of "he's intimidated by your muscles being bigger than his." i always see this discussion go down that road. it's a simple matter of aesthetics...it looks good to some people and not to others.