your "buddy" needs a smack to the face..............for the wife to back the brother means divorce time. If this isn't resolved, the uncle is going to get to the little girl sooner or later. So does your boy want to wait around for his little darling to finally get molested? Or he is going to be A GROWN ASS FUCKING MAN AND DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE?? Fuck the wife............got to get that little girl out of there. And yes, for the wife to be defending the brother there is definitely something going on there................bro, you need to impact this on your friend. You need to take him aside, go have lunch or coffee....and you need to make him understand that his little girl is now a target. If the brother get's away with this............he's going to be more brazen next time. This nigga would be sleeping with the fishes if it were my little girl...........and if the wife had anything to say about it, she'd be down there with him. There's obviously something broken within the wife..........the brother probably has her wrapped around his finger.......and has been eyeing up the little girl for some time, seriously......just think about it. So you as a friend, go be a grown ass man and get your bor to man the fuck up! It's police time.........and if the wife doesn't play ball.........and police don't end up pursuing things because of that.............than it's time to take matters into ones own hands. That little girl has an inalienable right to grow up without grown men forcing their grubby little shit laden paws on their privates...........and "MEN" have an inalienable right to secure that right for their own daughters...........end of discussion.