i have used restraining orders with some success. if your ex has a personality disorder\chemical imbalance things will get interesting. some women cannot grieve the loss of relationships and consequently have a tremendous fear of abandonment. 4 months and she's still trippin........not good. $100.00 to a donut she had a strained relationship with a male caregiver. next conversation you have with her lie tell her sumthin like this "baby im still hurtin but i gotta move on we both gotta move on. it is over" make sure you are in a public place with witnesses. dude if you glued a roller skate on top of my head, flipped me over and rolled me in to an auditorium with ten thousand women, i would roll to the craziest mutherfucker in there. i feel you. be cool and be careful.