thanks for the reply !
that's my point....higher commissions to the rep for the whole life, which leads me to believe that the info i received was bias. thinking 10yrs down the line i would have paid over $20k for this policy, wereas the yearly term policy (with a higher payout in the event i meet an untimely demise) will only cost $3k - $4k.
don't understand why you are saying whole life is better ?