I need suggestions on how to lower the aggression that fina causes. Jesus, My partner and I about killed each other last night. We never get physical, and we were shoving each other. We even cracked the wall. Which is not a surprise since collectively it is about 500lbs that slammed against the plaster. Thankfully, we both know that it is the gear, but between feeling like we have the flu, aching joints, hunger, sleeplessness, and acne, I am ready for this cycle to end.