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Okay,
We all know that apparently women dig confidence in men, in fact that's the number one thing they dig,
its been rumored to be digged by women more than a man's appearance, and in a sense it is equivalent in importance to a woman as the appearances of a girl are important to a man,
But what I wanna know is, is confidence really that important? and if so, why?
the reason I ask why, is beacuse someone's outward level of confidence really hardly tells you a thing about the person themself, in fact i find it even more shallow and less helpful than appearances, at least with appearances your eyes can fall in love with something.
But seriously, what does confidence tell you about the person at all? Can't a man be able to protect himself and his gal, and be successful in life, even though he displays a low self confidence outwardly?
I mean there are so many other attributes out there that I think would matter more, such as whether they are a good person, intellegent, ATTRACTIVE (women really need to give this trait more credit in men) , whether they can make u laugh, etc.
And seriously, men can still approach women and talk to them even though they might feel a little shy inside, so its not like low self confidence would prevent meeting someone necessarily.
I know a good number of people who look good, are smart, and are going to make a lot of money someday, even though they dont appear to have a high level of self confidence,
what may I ask does confidence tell you at all about the person??
really it seems even MORE shallow than appearances.
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And beyond all that I have 3 big questions:
1. What are some examples of how a woman could observe a man has a high self confidence?
2. What are some examples of how a woman could observe a man has a high self confidence?
3. (a) Is self confidence really that big a deal? I mean really, compared to all the other traits out there.
3. (b)and finally, Women, If you could rate these traits in importance, what order would they go in (going from most important to least important):
confidence, appearances, intelligence, good character, humorous, friendly.
We all know that apparently women dig confidence in men, in fact that's the number one thing they dig,
its been rumored to be digged by women more than a man's appearance, and in a sense it is equivalent in importance to a woman as the appearances of a girl are important to a man,
But what I wanna know is, is confidence really that important? and if so, why?
the reason I ask why, is beacuse someone's outward level of confidence really hardly tells you a thing about the person themself, in fact i find it even more shallow and less helpful than appearances, at least with appearances your eyes can fall in love with something.
But seriously, what does confidence tell you about the person at all? Can't a man be able to protect himself and his gal, and be successful in life, even though he displays a low self confidence outwardly?
I mean there are so many other attributes out there that I think would matter more, such as whether they are a good person, intellegent, ATTRACTIVE (women really need to give this trait more credit in men) , whether they can make u laugh, etc.
And seriously, men can still approach women and talk to them even though they might feel a little shy inside, so its not like low self confidence would prevent meeting someone necessarily.
I know a good number of people who look good, are smart, and are going to make a lot of money someday, even though they dont appear to have a high level of self confidence,
what may I ask does confidence tell you at all about the person??
really it seems even MORE shallow than appearances.
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And beyond all that I have 3 big questions:
1. What are some examples of how a woman could observe a man has a high self confidence?
2. What are some examples of how a woman could observe a man has a high self confidence?
3. (a) Is self confidence really that big a deal? I mean really, compared to all the other traits out there.
3. (b)and finally, Women, If you could rate these traits in importance, what order would they go in (going from most important to least important):
confidence, appearances, intelligence, good character, humorous, friendly.
