I believe it comes with age............. I have learned to appricate the small things in life, plus i can't date and just drop a girl flat like i did in college, i consider & respect her emotions and wouldn't want the same happen to me.
I am also alot more emotional now than i was 10 yrs ago.
I go more out of my way now to shower my date with attention and small things likke opening doors for her , seating her at the table, flowers...etc
RADAR