GenetiKing
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...is my father.
He is undoubtedly the most cold-hearted, self-centered, self-absorbed, self-righteous, pig-headed, stubborn, controlling and physically lazy person I have ever known.
He treats me like I'm such a bitch, he fucking thinks he owns me. Why do I continually let him dominate me like that? Almost all the unhappiness in my life stems from my fucked-up relationship with him. Why won't he listen to me?!!?
He thinks everything I do is pointless and childish unless it meshes with him and his 56 year old priorities. Example: He believes bodybuilding is "gay" and a waste of my time. I should be "pursuing other things" and I should "grow up" and leave the gym. Fuck him!!
I have always respected him and did what he expected of me. As I look back on it, my entire 23 years on this planet were a constant yet futile effort to measure up to his unachievable standards. All I ever wanted was to make my father proud of me. It's probably the underlying psychological reasons I got turned on to weight training in the first place...I have always constantly pursued perfection. But I'm growing sick of his moral and emotional constrictions. He expects me to live my life just like he has...just as he wants me to. I've sacrificed so many things so he would be proud of me and I still get his drunk speeches about how "I need to grow up" and "I need to get my priorities straight."
The shit about hit the fan last night. I do not want to estrange myself from my father for the rest of my life but it seems to be heading in that direction. The older I get, the less affection I have for him. How fucking sad. Thanks for taking me fishing when I was little Dad...wait, you NEVER did shit like that with me!
Provide for me? Yes, he's an exceptional financial supporter.
Love me? I don't know. I don't think he's capable.
I'm sorry, Dad. I tried.
Sorry for the rant.
He is undoubtedly the most cold-hearted, self-centered, self-absorbed, self-righteous, pig-headed, stubborn, controlling and physically lazy person I have ever known.
He treats me like I'm such a bitch, he fucking thinks he owns me. Why do I continually let him dominate me like that? Almost all the unhappiness in my life stems from my fucked-up relationship with him. Why won't he listen to me?!!?
He thinks everything I do is pointless and childish unless it meshes with him and his 56 year old priorities. Example: He believes bodybuilding is "gay" and a waste of my time. I should be "pursuing other things" and I should "grow up" and leave the gym. Fuck him!!
I have always respected him and did what he expected of me. As I look back on it, my entire 23 years on this planet were a constant yet futile effort to measure up to his unachievable standards. All I ever wanted was to make my father proud of me. It's probably the underlying psychological reasons I got turned on to weight training in the first place...I have always constantly pursued perfection. But I'm growing sick of his moral and emotional constrictions. He expects me to live my life just like he has...just as he wants me to. I've sacrificed so many things so he would be proud of me and I still get his drunk speeches about how "I need to grow up" and "I need to get my priorities straight."
The shit about hit the fan last night. I do not want to estrange myself from my father for the rest of my life but it seems to be heading in that direction. The older I get, the less affection I have for him. How fucking sad. Thanks for taking me fishing when I was little Dad...wait, you NEVER did shit like that with me!
Provide for me? Yes, he's an exceptional financial supporter.
Love me? I don't know. I don't think he's capable.
I'm sorry, Dad. I tried.
Sorry for the rant.