CatOwner1966
New member
Lately, I've been very afraid over how my in-laws will treat me when they see me for the first time post weight-loss etc(I havent seen them since late January since I've lost the weight and toned up ).They are very bullyish and manipulative and downright cruel(Especially my MIL,FIL & SIL). I have told my husband that I cannot be around them very much anymore because of how nosey and opinionated they are. Did I also mention that most of them are obese? Yep. Sadly they do not care. I'm trying my hardest to deal with the anxiety and sadness that has come over me lately because I know how they are. The mother and sister have a big jealousy problem as it is and the father is just plain insecure which is why he knocks me down most likely to make himself feel better. I didn't have a tremendous about of weight to lose, just 20 pounds of body fat and now I'm pretty much close to the size that I was when he first introduced me to him 8 years ago and boy! I remember how vicious they were to me back then. Long,long story. They are the most backwards and insensitive bunch of clods I've ever met in my entire life and yes, My marriage could be at serious risk if hubby doesnt step in and put them in thier place soon. He hasn't done it yet and YES! I've talked to him several times in that 8-year time period(Still do). Wish my parents were still alive Has anyone else here had this or something like this happen to you(with in-laws or anyone else you know) because you lost the weight? Just wondering...
Anyway, Sorry for the whining and thank you for listening. I just needed to vent.
Sherri
P.S.: Just in case you're wondering, Here are the in-laws ad this is what I'm dealing with:
Father in law(Who tries to psychologically manipulate me and cuts me down):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/Chuck2.jpg
Mother in Law(Left, Who stares me up and down every time I see her and sends cakes & breads home with her son(My husband) and tells him to make sure I try them):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/JoanNMike.jpg
And finally the sister in law who bullies, puts me down and also tries to psychologically manipulate me(By the way, If I'm around her and I don't have my wedding ring on(Like when I'm cooking something etc.), she'll ask why I'm not wearing it. Her and the mother talk on the phone alot and have little "Family meetings" to make sure things get done like my getting married(Like that was any of thier business) to thier son/brother. Like they even gave a shit about him before I came into the picture):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/TerHoldinUpGlass.jpg
Anyway, Sorry for the whining and thank you for listening. I just needed to vent.
Sherri
P.S.: Just in case you're wondering, Here are the in-laws ad this is what I'm dealing with:
Father in law(Who tries to psychologically manipulate me and cuts me down):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/Chuck2.jpg
Mother in Law(Left, Who stares me up and down every time I see her and sends cakes & breads home with her son(My husband) and tells him to make sure I try them):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/JoanNMike.jpg
And finally the sister in law who bullies, puts me down and also tries to psychologically manipulate me(By the way, If I'm around her and I don't have my wedding ring on(Like when I'm cooking something etc.), she'll ask why I'm not wearing it. Her and the mother talk on the phone alot and have little "Family meetings" to make sure things get done like my getting married(Like that was any of thier business) to thier son/brother. Like they even gave a shit about him before I came into the picture):
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v165/CatLover66/TerHoldinUpGlass.jpg