When you have told yourself that you need to cut down or quit yet you find yourself doing it again and again. When you sit at home bored out of your mind when not drinking b/c alcohol has become such a big part of your life. When your finances start being affected to the point of bankuptcy yet you can't understand where all your money went. When you almost lose your job b/c of being too drunk yet you continue to drink. Basically, everything and everyone is telling you that it's the alcohol yet you continue to drink