Good story bro. Viagra and the like weren't around when I was single, but, if they were, I would've been hittin' 'em too. Think of it this way, all your competition is, so, just like gear, you gotta keep up.
For me, the sides arn't too bad the first time I use it in a while, but, if I pop one the second night in a row, its bad. Pounding head, severe flushing, really bad heartburn (thats the worst I think). Goes away by the morning though. I've taken up to 50mg at a time, I get a mild improvement, but, nothing spectacular.