How are fit men supposed to marry grotesquely overweight women?

[gorillahung]

I just read some sad statistics from the CDC. I'm 3 inches taller than the average woman today but I only weigh 6 lbs. heavier and I'm not skinny. Whether it sounds shallow or not, I can't be with a woman that weighs as much as I do unless she's 6'2". Of course men are fatter now too. I'm attracted to women because they are smaller than me, softer than me, and smell nicer than me. If you value a woman that looks feminine, there aren't a lot of options any more.

 

[mellomuscle]

I just read some sad statistics from the CDC. I'm 3 inches taller than the average woman today but I only weigh 6 lbs. heavier and I'm not skinny. Whether it sounds shallow or not, I can't be with a woman that weighs as much as I do unless she's 6'2". Of course men are fatter now too. I'm attracted to women because they are smaller than me, softer than me, and smell nicer than me. If you value a woman that looks feminine, there aren't a lot of options any more.

I completely agree. I hated using the dating apps because all you get matched with are the thicker chicks, and the only attractive ones are bots trying to lead you to their escort site! Turns out, most girls are just not into taking care of themselves.

It's really sad.

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[gorillahung]

I completely agree. I hated using the dating apps because all you get matched with are the thicker chicks, and the only attractive ones are bots trying to lead you to their escort site! Turns out, most girls are just not into taking care of themselves.

It's really sad.

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I've read about this pretty new movement called MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) where young men are just doing away with dating. I think it's a result of a combination of factors including radical feminism but also the fact that women are no longer attractive in the eyes of men. On top of being overweight, the modern woman feels the need to get covered in tattoos and have a bull ring pierced through her septum. I can handle a small inconspicuous "girly" tattoo that is normally covered by clothes but these elaborate ink drawings covering large areas of her body is an instant turn off to me. I'm not a fan of tats. To me I don't see a piece of art. They all look like random blobs of ink. With fat rolls added, they look even worse. I never can even tell what they are supposed to be.

 

[gorillahung]

I completely agree. I hated using the dating apps because all you get matched with are the thicker chicks, and the only attractive ones are bots trying to lead you to their escort site! Turns out, most girls are just not into taking care of themselves.

It's really sad.

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I have had the same experience with dating sites. When I find one that looks like a good prospect and write to her, I get a response directing me to a porn site. My favorites though are the women who say things in their profile like "I don't want any losers"! If you're introducing yourself that way, it definitely says a great deal about you.

 

[Lucy01]

I don't envy ppl who are single. It sounds awful.

 

[stevesmi]

move to a place where women take care of themselves. you want to live in the sticks in middle america, then you will get fatter women. sorry but that is how it is. move to either coasts, women take care of themselves. lots of hot women in the northeast, FL, and west coast who are OBSESSED with fitness more than any man you will meet.

 

[Lucy01]

I think this goes both ways tho. I know very very few men my age that are fit.

 

[muskate]

There are plenty of fish in the sea. The best place to meet females that have the same goals and interests as you IS at the exact place where you do those hobbies.

Approach females at the gym, grocery store, library etc. Just come off as a friendly guy and start a conversation.

You could always try online dating as well.

 

[rawkstarr71]

That's the dumbest thing I've heard to date, hot chicks with smart tattoos are like a free Harley with a 66 gto, I'll bang those all day long, you can keep the unoriginal girls. I like girls with sex appeal and style

 

[gorillahung]

I think this goes both ways tho. I know very very few men my age that are fit.

Yes, it sure goes both ways. It just seems to me based on nothing more than observation that women will overlook a man's physical flaws if he has money. I can overlook a woman's physical flaws to a certain extent if she's intelligent and cares for me. However for me there needs to be some sort of physical attraction. It seems to me that women are more after an emotional attraction.